New clues: well known, isolated, has a butterfly tattoo, "please stop showing memories of my ex", Say my name
I am now thinking this is Michelle Williams, formerly of Destiny's Child...She went to the UK to do Strictly Come Dancing (their version of DWTS) and stayed over there to be a DJ on a morning show...she does have a butterfly tattoo.
"Alot of people when they listen, they don't listen. They hear but they don't listen to what the person is saying. " Boston Rob (Mariano)