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Post by Arielflies on Jun 18, 2018 22:55:01 GMT
The ProposalThis is not a Bachelor/ette show but it is produced by the same producers. It doesn't fall into the Bachelor In Paradise area, but is new and very weird.
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Post by Eastcoastmom on Jun 18, 2018 23:32:19 GMT
My local paper's take: Newsday.com
Re the bolded: She lives a few towns away from me. Hope she represents Long Island favorably. Oh, who am I kidding? Ya gotta either have a few screws loose to participate in any of these types of reality shows or have an elevated opinion of yourself, or want your 15 minutes of fame.
Nevertheless, I'M IN!!!
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Post by Eastcoastmom on Jun 19, 2018 2:12:06 GMT
Ok so I thought it was sight unseen on both sides. The bachelor behind the screen has seen them on the monitor. Unfair.
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Post by Midol on Jun 19, 2018 2:12:13 GMT
Ok I just had to check out this train wreck...at least once.
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Post by Midol on Jun 19, 2018 2:23:55 GMT
Jessica and Monica are the two that I thought he would pick.
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Post by Navybelle on Jun 19, 2018 2:36:02 GMT
Train wreck for sure, but I'm checking it out too. No way any of these relationships have a chance, after their pageant type of performances and answering the guy's questions - that's not enough time to really get to know anyone. Obviously! But even to choose one to date would be ridiculous. Marry? Crazy!
Did the Dating Game ever have people who stayed together, I wonder?
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Post by Midol on Jun 19, 2018 2:46:00 GMT
The lady who doesn't wants kids is toast I think. He will be down to the two who I thought he would pick and will probably pick the one who was in the car accident.
I'll be interested in seeing her reaction to him when she first sees him.
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Post by Navybelle on Jun 19, 2018 2:55:29 GMT
Jessica says when she's old and gray, 60 and can't walk anymore (!), she'll still love him. She somehow got the okay from her dad to get engaged on TV after a few minutes w/a guy.
This is making me so uncomfortable!!!
I want a follow-up on these couples, Love Connection style, where they dish about their dates and what went wrong. LOL
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Post by AlwaysVeg on Jun 19, 2018 3:32:46 GMT
This is the dumbest show I've ever seen. It literally made me nauseous. I know next week the genders will be reversed, and a woman will do the choosing, but I just found this to be so demeaning to women. When the guy came out, all he could say was how the women were so beautiful and stunning, as if that's all that matters, and even the Miss America pageant has done away with that strutting around in bathing suits to show the "assets." I'd like to see the two of them go out for dinner afterwards, realize they have nothing in common, and break up! No way I'll watch this ridiculous thing again.
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Post by MissScarlet on Jun 19, 2018 4:11:50 GMT
Jessica says when she's old and gray, 60 and can't walk anymore (!), she'll still love him. She somehow got the okay from her dad to get engaged on TV after a few minutes w/a guy. This is making me so uncomfortable!!! I want a follow-up on these couples, Love Connection style, where they dish about their dates and what went wrong. LOL That little girl is delusional. I'm over 60, I haven't started to grey yet, and I can not only walk, but could probably outwalk her. I take a 8-10 mile walk nearly every day (weather allowing) not counting my normal walking/running around. In fact, I know someone about to turn 90, who's full or energy, goes to workout classes, volunteers & even works sometimes. Girls at that age seem to think 60 is more like 100. This show is a trainwreck. My first indication of how bad it was going to be was the odd pageant voiceover introductions of the contestants. My eyes were already rolling at that. I doubt I'll waste any more time on it.
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Post by Midol on Jun 19, 2018 5:50:47 GMT
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Post by Arielflies on Jun 19, 2018 6:11:42 GMT
If that's the case, maybe I'll watch at least this episode. I don't know if I can do something trashier than the regular Bachelor franchise shows. They seem to be my bottom of the barrel.
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Post by FannyMare on Jun 19, 2018 14:29:36 GMT
This is the dumbest show I've ever seen. It literally made me nauseous. I know next week the genders will be reversed, and a woman will do the choosing, but I just found this to be so demeaning to women. When the guy came out, all he could say was how the women were so beautiful and stunning, as if that's all that matters, and even the Miss America pageant has done away with that strutting around in bathing suits to show the "assets." I'd like to see the two of them go out for dinner afterwards, realize they have nothing in common, and break up! No way I'll watch this ridiculous thing again. I'm glad I didn't bother. I get enough producer fed dreck from the bachelor..
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Post by AlwaysVeg on Jun 19, 2018 16:01:07 GMT
This is the dumbest show I've ever seen. It literally made me nauseous. I know next week the genders will be reversed, and a woman will do the choosing, but I just found this to be so demeaning to women. When the guy came out, all he could say was how the women were so beautiful and stunning, as if that's all that matters, and even the Miss America pageant has done away with that strutting around in bathing suits to show the "assets." I'd like to see the two of them go out for dinner afterwards, realize they have nothing in common, and break up! No way I'll watch this ridiculous thing again. I'm glad I didn't bother. I get enough producer fed dreck from the bachelor.. This is a zillion times worse than the Bachelor, FM. It's the Bachelor on steroids. I can't believe those women were ready and willing to become engaged to someone they couldn't even see, and knew nothing about except that he's a cop and had had an amputation, while he gets to ask all the questions, see, and learn at least something about them... especially important somethings like religious beliefs and that one woman who said she didn't want to have children. It's a sad testament to how desperate people are to "find" someone and be "chosen." Swipe right on national TV.
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Post by Critical on Jun 19, 2018 20:42:22 GMT
It was so cringe-worthy. I ended up muting quite a lot of it because I was just so embarrassed for them all. The way they hid what he looked like at the beginning was SUPER creepy. Made him look like a movie monster or something.
The girl he picked seems nice and maybe they'll work out.....but probably not.
Wasn't there a show many years ago that was a blind dating show similar to this? I just remember the couples not seeing each other, at least initially. It was very odd and I doubt ANY of the couples stayed together for even a week.
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Post by MissScarlet on Jun 19, 2018 20:57:58 GMT
Another thing that bothered about this show was the "Swimsuit Competition". Now, I don't mind it on Beauty Contest shows. After all, that's what they are, nomatter how much they try to hide this by calling themselves "Scholarship Competitions" or something equally dumb. They're Beauty Contests. Own it. Anyhow, this show is supposedly about finding love . Having the contestants trot out & prance around showing the goods just seemed wrong. From promos, it looks like they do the same thing with men. At least they're equal opportunity inappropriate.
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Post by Eastcoastmom on Jun 19, 2018 20:58:35 GMT
It was so cringe-worthy. I ended up muting quite a lot of it because I was just so embarrassed for them all. The way they hid what he looked like at the beginning was SUPER creepy. Made him look like a movie monster or something. The girl he picked seems nice and maybe they'll work out.....but probably not. Wasn't there a show many years ago that was a blind dating show similar to this? I just remember the couples not seeing each other, at least initially. It was very odd and I doubt ANY of the couples stayed together for even a week. Embarrassed to say I watched this but it was called Dating in the Dark.
The gal who lives a few towns away from me was top 4. Her name was Morgan and I thought she was the prettiest of the bunch (not that that matters). I had to laugh when she said the reason she was giving this a try was b/c dating guys from Long Island had not been working out for her so she figured she'd try to date a guy from the West Coast. I'm assuming the show was filmed in CA b/c isn't Bakersfield in Illinois?
Well good luck to Mike and Monica!
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Post by Critical on Jun 19, 2018 21:20:22 GMT
I don't know if there's a Bakersfield in IL, but there's one in CA as well - just over 100 miles north of LA.
YES! Dating in the Dark. I can't believe that wasn't the bottom of the barrel. They just keep digging.
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Post by Navybelle on Jun 20, 2018 1:25:21 GMT
LOL, I kinda liked Dating in the Dark! They were in a completely dark room and got to talk with the prospective dates. At least they were having conversations, not like on this stupid show where it's a Q and A format. And, didn't the darkroom people just agree to date in the end, and go off together? Not propose and say they'll get married.... That part is soooo dumb.
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Post by mayamaisha on Jun 20, 2018 4:09:28 GMT
{Sigh}
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Post by Critical on Jun 20, 2018 5:44:21 GMT
LOL, I kinda liked Dating in the Dark! They were in a completely dark room and got to talk with the prospective dates. At least they were having conversations, not like on this stupid show where it's a Q and A format. And, didn't the darkroom people just agree to date in the end, and go off together? Not propose and say they'll get married.... That part is soooo dumb. Okay, now that I read that description that isn't the show I was thinking of. The show I remember was ALL on a stage like this one. The couples couldn't see each other before they got engaged. IIRC, there was a scrim between them until they got engaged. This was easily a decade ago.
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Post by mayamaisha on Jun 20, 2018 6:41:30 GMT
LOL, I kinda liked Dating in the Dark! They were in a completely dark room and got to talk with the prospective dates. At least they were having conversations, not like on this stupid show where it's a Q and A format. And, didn't the darkroom people just agree to date in the end, and go off together? Not propose and say they'll get married.... That part is soooo dumb. Okay, now that I read that description that isn't the show I was thinking of. The show I remember was ALL on a stage like this one. The couples couldn't see each other before they got engaged. IIRC, there was a scrim between them until they got engaged. This was easily a decade ago. It was cal It was called the Dating Game it was on in the 60's or 70's
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Post by Critical on Jun 20, 2018 6:55:51 GMT
I'm 49. I remember The Dating Game. No one got engaged on that show - they just went on a date at the end. Like I said, the show I'm thinking of had a familiar feel, production-wise, to this one and was maybe a decade or so ago.
Anyway, not important, so let's get back to discussing The Proposal!
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Post by AlwaysVeg on Jun 22, 2018 16:14:05 GMT
I vaguely remember a show where the couples couldn't see each other, but this show creeped me out for (among other reasons) the fact that he was sitting there in his little dark cubicle checking out all the girls from head to toe, and finally choosing the one who most met his criteria, whatever they might be (but I assume mostly physical since he knows very little else) ... while the chosen one just has to accept whatever the heck he looks like without having any choice until after they're engaged! Maybe all the proposals and so-called engagements on the Bachelor series have sensitized me to the point of being dismayed by these casual and frivolous proposals and engagements, and this show takes that to an even more ridiculous level.
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Post by Arielflies on Jun 22, 2018 16:27:38 GMT
by Samantha Schnurr
Just an episode into ABC's newly debuted series, The Proposal, the show has been faced with an off-screen problem. ABC and Warner Horizon confirmed to E! News that they have decided to pull next Monday's second episode of the reality dating series in light of a newly surfaced allegation against one of the contestants. "An allegation has been made against a contestant on next week's episode of The Proposal. While the accusation was not related to the contestant's appearance on the program, we take it very seriously," ABC and Warner Horizon said in a joint statement to E! News. "ABC and the producers of The Proposal are pulling the episode while this matter is under review." Early Thursday, Erica Meshke penned a lengthy public Facebook post, in which she initially accused an unnamed man of facilitating her sexual assault, or as she described, a "bait-and-catch horror story." "One of the men pictured here was directly responsible for my date rape," the Milwaukee native wrote along with a group photo of male contestants. "After keeping this buried for nearly eight months, and seeing this man continue to succeed and not be held accountable for his actions, I've had enough. I've lost sleep, relationships, self esteem, trust, and countless other things because of that night. And I'm done keeping it quiet."
As Meshke described in the post, in early November, she met the man on Tinder and he allegedly asked to meet. She said she wanted to meet at a public place and, according to her account, he invited her to his apartment complex's entertainment room.
When she met him there, she said there were two older men there whom he called friends. Meshke said they poured her a drink and then she was left alone with the two other men while the "original guy" never returned despite her texts and calls.
According to her account, the men told her he would be back soon and while she waited, she said she accepted another drink, which she now says was spiked.
Meshke wrote that she was taken to an upstairs apartment by one of the older men. "The things I endured for the next 5 hours were unspeakable," she wrote.
After, she claims she was threatened and was told she would be found if she told anyone. Meshke explained that she talked to her closest friends and posted an anonymous warning about him in a Facebook group. She noted she ran into the unnamed man at a bar later on and confronted him.
"This man is the pretty face that is used as a lure to get girls into unsafe situations," she alleged.
Meshke later identified the contestant as Michael Friday by posting a photo of him and his Instagram page in the comments of the Facebook post. According to People, ABC also revealed that Friday had been eliminated in "the first round of the show."
"After keeping this buried for nearly eight months, and seeing this man continue to succeed and not be held accountable for his actions, I've had enough," Meshke wrote. "I've lost sleep, relationships, self esteem [sic], trust and countless other things because of that night. And I'm done keeping it quiet."
E! News has reached out to Meshke and Friday for comment.
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Post by Imperfect1 on Jun 22, 2018 17:46:53 GMT
Gawd, what a nightmare! They should cancel the next episode. AND ALL of the episodes after that!!!
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Post by FannyMare on Jun 22, 2018 18:42:51 GMT
Gawd, what a nightmare! They should cancel the next episode. AND ALL of the episodes after that!!! I agree, this show was thrown together, and the above article proves it I don't think they can find enough contestants anymore, the background checks for these shows stink!
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Post by dagwood on Jun 22, 2018 19:22:05 GMT
LOL, I kinda liked Dating in the Dark! They were in a completely dark room and got to talk with the prospective dates. At least they were having conversations, not like on this stupid show where it's a Q and A format. And, didn't the darkroom people just agree to date in the end, and go off together? Not propose and say they'll get married.... That part is soooo dumb. Okay, now that I read that description that isn't the show I was thinking of. The show I remember was ALL on a stage like this one. The couples couldn't see each other before they got engaged. IIRC, there was a scrim between them until they got engaged. This was easily a decade ago. Was it that horrible Who Wants To Marry A Millionaire? With that icky guy and Darva Conger? Yes, I am embarrassed that I remember that one.
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Post by Critical on Jun 22, 2018 19:55:36 GMT
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Post by MissScarlet on Jun 22, 2018 20:05:12 GMT
Yipes! I hope charges were pressed, but from the sounds of it, I doubt it. Whatever minor punishment would be done to all 3 of these men, it's not enough. This is why I don't do any online dating.
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