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Post by acookertv on Jul 2, 2018 17:29:13 GMT
The social edition episodes are last week's episode with notes and whatnot flashed on the screen from things said in social media after watching the episode. Think of it like pop up video used to be for Bravo shows. I think that most all of the shows this week are not airing new episodes because of the holiday.
With Ramona and Luann's issues with her -- I understand why people are turned off by her continuing to be social with Tom, and see it as a betrayal towards Luann. That being said, Ramona was upset when Luann and Tom got together because he'd been dating Ramona as well, and Ramona felt it was a violation of girl code. Looking back, Luann would have been better off to say that if he was dating both of them he was bad news, but she didn't. She went for what she wanted which was fair game - but was somewhat of a betrayal to Ramona. So I'm not sure that Luann has a lot of ground to stand on demanding total loyalty from Ramona when she's never given the same back. I think in truth they are acquaintances who tolerate each other for the purpose of their jobs so any expectation of loyalty between them creates good drama but isn't realistic.
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 2, 2018 21:55:52 GMT
I don't think Ramona dated Tom( or what I call dated) I think at best she had a couple of free dinners with him..he even said as much.
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Post by acookertv on Jul 2, 2018 23:25:02 GMT
I dint disagree with that. But there was something and Luann didn’t give a damn. Not only did she move forward full throttle with Tom but dismissed Ramona’s reaction. Nothing wrong with that, but then she shouldn’t. E surprised when she gets the same treatment in return.
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 2, 2018 23:50:45 GMT
I dint disagree with that. But there was something and Luann didn’t give a damn. Not only did she move forward full throttle with Tom but dismissed Ramona’s reaction. Nothing wrong with that, but then she shouldn’t. E surprised when she gets the same treatment in return. I agree..although if my GF was married to someone,and they divorced, I wouldn't be calling him up for an invite to anything OTOH is she is having drinks and bumps into him, that's different..jmho
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Post by pasnowbunny2 on Jul 3, 2018 0:44:41 GMT
Ramona had drinks with Harry Durbin. Tom just happened to be at the Regency at the same time. Lu wasn't upset over the photo until her publicist got upset. Lu was supposedly wasted a few weeks ago at the San Fran gay pride parade.
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 3, 2018 0:46:03 GMT
Ramona had drinks with Harry Durbin. Tom just happened to be at the Regency at the same time. Lu wasn't upset over the photo until her publicist got upset. Lu was supposedly wasted a few weeks ago at the San Fran gay pride parade. Harry?, great choice in guys.;lol
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Post by momrek06 on Jul 3, 2018 2:38:32 GMT
Ramona had drinks with Harry Durbin. Tom just happened to be at the Regency at the same time. Lu wasn't upset over the photo until her publicist got upset. Lu was supposedly wasted a few weeks ago at the San Fran gay pride parade.Oh no.
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 3, 2018 3:55:13 GMT
Ramona had drinks with Harry Durbin. Tom just happened to be at the Regency at the same time. Lu wasn't upset over the photo until her publicist got upset. Lu was supposedly wasted a few weeks ago at the San Fran gay pride parade.Oh no. There is video of her, I can't say if she was drinking or not..she's happy.
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Post by acookertv on Jul 3, 2018 9:48:19 GMT
I think that Ramona will have drinks with just about any man who gives her attention. More than any of the other women I think she really misses being married and wants to be married again. Hanging out with men like Harry or Tom she's not on the right path to make that happen ... but I think that women like Luann and Sonja are content with hooking up and having fun while Ramona really feels a void and wants a partner in her life. She'd be wise to pay attention to how Dorinda or Carole do it instead of trying to keep up with Luann and Sonja, and eventually she'll learn.
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Post by Imperfect1 on Jul 3, 2018 13:13:38 GMT
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 3, 2018 13:30:30 GMT
I'm glad they are friends! Thats the way it should be, and she's 6 months sober!
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Post by momrek06 on Jul 3, 2018 15:28:52 GMT
LU looks so healthy in those pictures!! Its going to be very hard to be on RH where the ladies always do so much drinking. I hope LU stays strong!!! YEAH to her 6 MONTHS sober!!!
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Post by sweetmermaid1 on Jul 3, 2018 16:24:00 GMT
Since they were "cuddling and kissing', I'm assuming the Count is no longer with the woman he left Lu for? Just 6 months ago the Count was calling her an embarrassment to his family name and wanted her to start using her maiden name.
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Post by pasnowbunny2 on Jul 8, 2018 0:06:34 GMT
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Post by Imperfect1 on Jul 8, 2018 0:57:34 GMT
Five months doesn't sound like a very long time to wait to start dating after your husband dies, but Jill isn't doing anything 'wrong' by dating again. And it doesn't mean she loved Bobby any less than if she waited a year, or longer. Everyone's different. I would imagine Jill is lonely and that she really enjoys the companionship. This man she's seeing has apparently been a friend for years, and now they're slightly more than friends, and are having a 'casual' relationship at this point. And maybe it'll develop into something more, but maybe not. Either way, it sounds fine to me. I'm not a particular fan of Jill's, but I was very sorry for her pain, and I hope she'll find happiness in the future.
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 8, 2018 6:08:01 GMT
He did have cancer longer than five months though, if she can move on, that's fine..you can still have love in your heart.
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Post by beerbelly on Jul 8, 2018 10:41:42 GMT
I'm sure she was taking care of him for years. I'm sure she wants a companion right now.
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Post by momrek06 on Jul 8, 2018 16:00:18 GMT
Is there even a particular time when a widow or widower is allowed to start seeing other people? Etiquette speaking that is .... just so people are not " talking"? Unless you know something suspicious.......like one of my best friends was dying of cancer, (this was 12 years ago). Nancy was sick for 5 years. Having some good days and many more bad days. When it got towards the end and she was hospitalized, there was a cancer nurse that was very attentive to her. OK then the "rumors" start all over the very small town we lived in that hubby Steve is seeing Nancy's Nurse.....................OMG................Nancy dies and they immediately get married............OMG..............the Wake was a disaster. People all went to pay their respects to Nancy and her sons and no one wanted anything to do with Steve. Actually, oh, get this Steve left our town and MOVED IN with Nurse before Nancy actually died. Which was another town, I guess he was HAPPILY glad to be away from all the "rolled eyes". #dog That was my thoughts. My Lord and the woman being a CANCER nurse of all things........have some COMPASSION for at least her sons.
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Post by acookertv on Jul 8, 2018 19:41:17 GMT
I have an uncle who married a new wife less than a year after his previous wife died of cancer. Her fight with cancer had gone on for about seven years, and the point where we knew that she would eventually not make it lasted over a year. Due to a number of circumstances, he was left to essentially be the sole caregiver. He saw the worst of her cancer, knew better than the rest of us when hope was waning, and in truth started his mourning before anyone else did. We were all holding out hope of a recovery to support both my uncle and his wife. But he heard the doctors, saw the impact, and was forced to accept the truth. So when she died and the rest of us stared mourning, he was ahead of us. It was hard for some family members to accept how quickly he appeared to move on. But his timing in mourning was simply different that the rest of us. Expecting him to remain lonely for the sake of our memories would have been selfish. Since Jill went through the prolonged illness with Bobby, I would guess she likely started her mourning at the time they were told nothing else could be done rather than when the rest of us were told he had died. Add to that Jill told Betheny at the funeral she had never been alone. Being alone is hard and some don’t do it well. It sounds like Jill is healing, and I think that’s encouraging.
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Post by beerbelly on Jul 8, 2018 20:27:48 GMT
Great post Acooker! Perfectly said.
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Post by queenb on Jul 11, 2018 15:01:52 GMT
well strickly ettiqutte wise. One year before dating romantically
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Post by momrek06 on Jul 11, 2018 16:16:08 GMT
well strickly ettiqutte wise. One year before dating romantically Hi queenb who wrote that etiquette book? Just curious.
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Post by beerbelly on Jul 11, 2018 22:14:47 GMT
News is that LuAnne is indeed dating...her agent.
I had thought that recently sober people should not be in a relationship for a year. Because they are emotionally vulnerable.
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Post by redsoxgirl on Jul 11, 2018 22:53:15 GMT
There isn't any etiquette anymore about when the proper time is to date. There is no wrong or right in this. Each death is a unique experience with circumstances specific to each person. Society creates rules that turn into negative judgements and assumptions. We all cope differently, as well. There are as many reasons people date "early on'' as there are people. Then you have folks who want to know when a person will move on-when they'll start dating again. As if it's any of their business. Geez, can we not let people alone and simply stop with all these rules and regulations about situations that are personal and unique? Can't we just support people as they travel through this life? When you start dating or if you ever date again is not a litmus test for genuine your grief is.'
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 12, 2018 18:10:07 GMT
I thought tonights episode was kind of fun. I'm not sure why Sonja needs to keep showing her bare bottom, I guess she's proud of it. I went to a speed dating thing years ago, and I hated it. The men at their speed dating, were quite nice looking. I think Ramona is a harmless flirt, and she speaks nothing like Bethenny suggested. Brian didn't look bored with her.. Again Sonja, why so raunchy? Whips etc.. We've been to Cartagena a couple of times. When we cruised, dh bought me a very small emerald ring. I got back on the boat, and the ladies had HUGE rings...but I loved mine. Next week, it looks like Carole and Bethenny are arguing again, was it over Brian? The guy in the red scarf, B already said she didn't want to date? Oh well, let's go on that boat ride!
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Post by acookertv on Jul 12, 2018 18:35:27 GMT
I thought that Bethenny mocking Ramona for bringing red scarf a drink illustrated again the hypocrisy she lives with every day. If one of the other women were talking to a man that she was interested in, she'd do exactly what Ramona did - only she would not walk away. She'd more likely stay there and try to elbow the other woman away. It was a great move on Ramona's part, and she executed it confidently and flawlessly. Bethenny also made me gag when she declared she is tired of trying to like men who are so much more interested in her. If that's what she needs to believe to live with herself, have at it. I did enjoy watching all the women speed dating. It was entertaining to see how they each handled things differently. Of all of them, I'd say that Ramona did was the best - she did a nice job of flirting, sharing things about herself, but also taking interest in the men she talked to. Severla of the women were so busy expecting the men to be fascinated with them they forgot it's a two way street! The guy that Sonja was talking about spanking and whips with kind of creeped me out! He came across as a little too aggressive when he grabbed her head to talk about what he'd do to her. It was a bit alarming. I was glad Sonja didn't leave with him. She was on WWHL last night and she said that she flirts with men all the time, but the men she's truly interested in she doesn't flirt at all. She said she's too scared to let men know she's interested when she really is.
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 12, 2018 18:40:29 GMT
I laughed when a guy started talking to Sonja, (she had just walked in) and she said we're not talking until I'm speeding..LOL I see the Skinny jeans appear every episode, as B flings them at Sonja.. I know, I rolled my eyes... B. .LOL
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Post by pasnowbunny2 on Jul 12, 2018 21:43:40 GMT
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 12, 2018 22:03:18 GMT
Is that another page six story, because all of a sudden, there seems to be a lot of information on Lu, conflicting information..
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Post by JoRyMom on Jul 12, 2018 22:34:26 GMT
Her kids are suing her? WOW.
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