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Post by MissGriss on Jul 18, 2018 23:05:11 GMT
The previews for Bachelor in Paradise are on, and Tia and Colton are both going to be on. However, Colton at some point is going to have seen the same thing we saw last night. I don't think Colton was going to be F1, but regardless of what she said for dismissing him, how is he going to view that discussion between Tia and Becca? We may never really know. The shooting for Bachelor in Paradise was already in the can by the time Tia's talk with Becca aired, so unless Tia told Colton about it in Paradise, he wouldn't have known what she'd done. But he sure knows now, and I can't imagine he's happy about it. It will be interesting to see if we ever get to hear what he thinks. I saw a post-episode interview with Raven yesterday, and she sure wasn't shy about saying that Tia doing that wasn't a good idea. I thought it was interesting that even her bestie wasn't standing by her in terms of saying that was a good decision.
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Post by bloomers on Jul 19, 2018 0:36:30 GMT
The previews for Bachelor in Paradise are on, and Tia and Colton are both going to be on. However, Colton at some point is going to have seen the same thing we saw last night. I don't think Colton was going to be F1, but regardless of what she said for dismissing him, how is he going to view that discussion between Tia and Becca? We may never really know. The shooting for Bachelor in Paradise was already in the can by the time Tia's talk with Becca aired, so unless Tia told Colton about it in Paradise, he wouldn't have known what she'd done. But he sure knows now, and I can't imagine he's happy about it. It will be interesting to see if we ever get to hear what he thinks. I saw a post-episode interview with Raven yesterday, and she sure wasn't shy about saying that Tia doing that wasn't a good idea. I thought it was interesting that even her bestie wasn't standing by her in terms of saying that was a good decision. Yikes! Rachel called Tia a Judas in the blog she writes for one of the mags and said that Tia belonged on BIP. She said the time to have told Becca about her feelings for Colton were the first time they talked. Tia is taking an online beating; on the other hand, Becca has come to her defense. She described Tia as having several positive attributes.
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Post by MissGriss on Jul 19, 2018 1:17:58 GMT
The shooting for Bachelor in Paradise was already in the can by the time Tia's talk with Becca aired, so unless Tia told Colton about it in Paradise, he wouldn't have known what she'd done. But he sure knows now, and I can't imagine he's happy about it. It will be interesting to see if we ever get to hear what he thinks. I saw a post-episode interview with Raven yesterday, and she sure wasn't shy about saying that Tia doing that wasn't a good idea. I thought it was interesting that even her bestie wasn't standing by her in terms of saying that was a good decision. Yikes! Rachel called Tia a Judas in the blog she writes for one of the mags and said that Tia belonged on BIP. She said the time to have told Becca about her feelings for Colton were the first time they talked. Tia is taking an online beating; on the other hand, Becca has come to her defense. She described Tia as having several positive attributes. Yeah. I saw a recap show with Ashley I, Brian, and Rachel. They were all saying she shouldn't have done it, and they weren't particularly nice about it. Raven wasn't ragging on Tia. She was just saying it wasn't a smart thing to have done. She also said she didn't think Tia and Colton were a good match. She said she likes them both, but she can't see them together.
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 19, 2018 3:33:53 GMT
Sorry, if Tia is a puppet for this show, she should know what happens. I can't say I feel sorry for her, they went out once...it was stupid to say what she did
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Post by MissGriss on Jul 19, 2018 4:41:22 GMT
Yeah. If she let the show manipulate her, she should know better. In the interview Raven did, it sounds like she knows Colton and thinks he's really sweet and quite innocent. The interviewers asked her who she thought Colton and Tia should each get together with, and Raven basically said (though not in these words) that Colton was too sweet and innocent to be matched up with any of the Bachelor Nation women.
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Post by carolb57 on Jul 21, 2018 3:31:46 GMT
How come there was snow on the ground in Bailey, Colorado for Blake HT visit and Spring blossoms on the trees in Parker, Colorado for Colton visit?
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Post by Arielflies on Jul 21, 2018 3:58:45 GMT
Elevation?
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Post by indy1945 on Jul 21, 2018 19:17:12 GMT
How come there was snow on the ground in Bailey, Colorado for Blake HT visit and Spring blossoms on the trees in Parker, Colorado for Colton visit? I had wondered the same thing. Elevation makes sense.
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Post by Jamie5632 on Jul 23, 2018 3:15:15 GMT
Yes, here in Colorado you can ski in the morning and play golf in the afternoon of the same day if you come down the mountain.
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Post by fang2170 on Jul 23, 2018 16:13:02 GMT
She also said she didn't think Tia and Colton were a good match. She said she likes them both, but she can't see them together. I can't see this as a match either. I'm still dumbfounded how Tia could have "feelings" for Colton after just ONE date
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Post by FannyMare on Jul 23, 2018 16:36:25 GMT
She also said she didn't think Tia and Colton were a good match. She said she likes them both, but she can't see them together. I can't see this as a match either. I'm still dumbfounded how Tia could have "feelings" for Colton after just ONE date Tia needed to extend her 15 minutes of um,fame..
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Post by bloomers on Jul 23, 2018 16:42:59 GMT
For whatever it is worth...here is what I think after living a long time, dating a bunch when I was younger - with good and bad results - and 1 unsuccessful marriage and 1 longtime marriage: If a guy is interested, he lets you know. One way he does this is he hangs around. He does not run off after other things whether it be other women, opportunities ( like the Bachelor), or whatever. Colton may have liked Tia - but not good enough to hang around. I am sorry....but there it is. I had situations like that, too. I wanted them to hang around longer than they did. I also had some who wanted to hang around longer than "I" wanted them to. It is all part of the game called dating, and it is the way of it until you find the one who you are going to end up with.
I am sorry for Tia. However, I don't feel positive about this for her in Bachelor in Paradise.
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Post by fang2170 on Jul 23, 2018 17:20:43 GMT
For whatever it is worth...here is what I think after living a long time, dating a bunch when I was younger - with good and bad results - and 1 unsuccessful marriage and 1 longtime marriage: If a guy is interested, he lets you know. One way he does this is he hangs around. He does not run off after other things whether it be other women, opportunities ( like the Bachelor), or whatever. Colton may have liked Tia - but not good enough to hang around. I am sorry....but there it is. I had situations like that, too. I wanted them to hang around longer than they did. I also had some who wanted to hang around longer than "I" wanted them to. It is all part of the game called dating, and it is the way of it until you find the one who you are going to end up with. I am sorry for Tia. However, I don't feel positive about this for her in Bachelor in Paradise. Someone wrote a book many years ago called, "He Is Just Not That Into You". And someone needs to give Tia a copy....
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Post by bloomers on Jul 24, 2018 16:52:59 GMT
For whatever it is worth...here is what I think after living a long time, dating a bunch when I was younger - with good and bad results - and 1 unsuccessful marriage and 1 longtime marriage: If a guy is interested, he lets you know. One way he does this is he hangs around. He does not run off after other things whether it be other women, opportunities ( like the Bachelor), or whatever. Colton may have liked Tia - but not good enough to hang around. I am sorry....but there it is. I had situations like that, too. I wanted them to hang around longer than they did. I also had some who wanted to hang around longer than "I" wanted them to. It is all part of the game called dating, and it is the way of it until you find the one who you are going to end up with. I am sorry for Tia. However, I don't feel positive about this for her in Bachelor in Paradise. Someone wrote a book many years ago called, "He Is Just Not That Into You". And someone needs to give Tia a copy.... Depending on how emotionally invested the person becomes in the other person, it is well and good for every one else at any distance to recognize/voice such a truth. At some point, the brain might even recognize it, but the cold, hard reality is that the heart wants what the heart wants. That is precisely where the disconnect comes in to play and makes it extremely difficult to sometimes voluntarily walk away, let alone do so with aplomb and grace.
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Post by fang2170 on Jul 24, 2018 18:38:27 GMT
Someone wrote a book many years ago called, "He Is Just Not That Into You". And someone needs to give Tia a copy.... Depending on how emotionally invested the person becomes in the other person, it is well and good for every one else at any distance to recognize/voice such a truth. At some point, the brain might even recognize it, but the cold, hard reality is that the heart wants what the heart wants. That is precisely where the disconnect comes in to play and makes it extremely difficult to sometimes voluntarily walk away, let alone do so with aplomb and grace. The viewers have only been made aware of one date that Tia & Colton shared. Even Colton's father mentioned that. I can't see how she'd be so hung up on him that she couldn't walk away? The only thing I can figure is the things the viewers have been shown is somewhat out of sequence. If Colton and Tia have some type of relationship on BIP, then I could buy her strong feelings for him. But didn't BIP filming start AFTER Colton's time on the Bachelorette? So confused!
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Post by MissScarlet on Jul 24, 2018 21:46:44 GMT
I think Production got wind of the fact that they had 1 date, and ran with it, in order to drum up manufactured drama. They probably talked Tia into coming back & making up that "confession". It was probably phony as all heck. If there had been any connection between them (Colton & Tia) there would have been more than 1 date & he probably wouldn't have gone on the show. Colton seemed totally surprised by the fact that anything was being made of it. It seemed like to him it was nothing. It probably was, except in the eyes of Production story line.
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Post by bloomers on Jul 25, 2018 1:46:36 GMT
More than addressing the Colton/Tia situation, I think I was throwing out what I think of when people rather nonchalantly shrug and say, "He just isn't in to you," even when the two may have been a couple for a long time, and he decides to leave as if that decides the whole matter. "Forget it, and go on with life as if the whole situation never happened." I think it is easier said than done.
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