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Post by mayamaisha on Sept 23, 2020 1:11:52 GMT
Why would she do something like that? She's just simple-minded.
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Post by momrek06 on Sept 23, 2020 2:05:00 GMT
Yeah, and for someone in the LGBTQ community, she should know especially that 'outing' someone is just all kinds of wrong. I saw Malia's response and I thought that she handled it perfectly. EXACTLY, beerbelly. Her actions sicken me. Invasion of someone's privacy. I feel Malia is owed an apology from Sandy for that video.
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Post by acookertv on Sept 23, 2020 2:54:09 GMT
I’m watching the watch with Kate of the episode with all the cabin drama. I’d forgotten that there is some bad blood between Hannah and Kate, so that may be swaying her judgement. But it’s interesting that she’s siding with Malia. Kate’s main point is that crew are never in the cabins unless sleeping so it doesn’t matter.
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Post by queta on Sept 23, 2020 14:23:17 GMT
Wow! Captain Sandy seems totally drunk. I did kind of like her, but this behavior and "outing" of Malia is so wrong on so many levels. This could be the end of her Bravo career.
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Post by acookertv on Sept 23, 2020 14:48:20 GMT
I think she'll be fine with Bravo. If being drunk on camera put Bravolebrities in jeopardy of losing their jobs, they'd have no programming!
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Post by momrek06 on Sept 23, 2020 16:17:38 GMT
I think she'll be fine with Bravo. If being drunk on camera put Bravolebrities in jeopardy of losing their jobs, they'd have no programming! I don't care if Sandy loses or keeps her job .... for me I am feeling that had Sandy NOT been drinking she most likely would not have taken to twitter with that video. Roping in Production as well. They cannot be happy with Sandy's video. And like beerbelly said, with Sandy especially being with the LGBTQ community why even go there about Malia. I don't do twitter so I have no clue if all this is blowing up on twitter. I only saw the video through the link that was posted here.
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Post by woodiedog on Sept 23, 2020 23:26:27 GMT
I hope that Sandy seeks treatment or help if she is drinking again.
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Post by queta on Sept 24, 2020 2:19:22 GMT
I hope that Sandy seeks treatment or help if she is drinking again. I had forgotten she was in recovery....
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Post by AZChristian on Sept 24, 2020 17:22:35 GMT
I think she'll be fine with Bravo. If being drunk on camera put Bravolebrities in jeopardy of losing their jobs, they'd have no programming! And all of those luxury yachts would be sailing with NO crew.
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Post by JustJuls on Sept 24, 2020 20:24:30 GMT
Wow. That video was disturbing.
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Post by Fo'Realz? on Sept 26, 2020 17:00:04 GMT
Sheesh, I quit on all of the housewife shows a good while back, when I finally caught on that they were really about women showing their arses, with terrible behavior being the way for cast members to keep their "jobs". In fact, decent or civil behavior was usually branded "boring" and ensured a ticket out. But, (I thought) at least THIS show had strong, professional women in top roles ... but now ... this season with Cap'n Sandy and Malia has smelled like a straight up extension of that misogynistic 'women-behaving-badly' pattern. I no longer doubt the inferences that production is involved in setting up situations that are meant to degenerate into these trashy cage fights, apparently, that IS the product that Bravo is selling. That's me, done.
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Post by momrek06 on Sept 29, 2020 6:25:37 GMT
Sandy and Malia were on WWHL right after BD!
No mention of that video of Sandy outing Malia!
But Malia said she and Tom are no longer together. They just broke up. 😰
Andy was shocked because he said that Bravo had just (2 weeks ago) filmed the REUNION Show and Tom and Malia were all over each other. Malia did not want to talk about it but Andy said he saw her IG and Malia posted something about being single and something about cheating. Malia really did not say anything about the situation with Tom. 😰
The actual BD episode showed Tom being his usual unprofessional self as far as the galley is concerned.
I am glad Jess has moved on from Rob as SHE cannot trust him. Not that Rob is even doing anything wrong but Jess’ constant worrying about Rob bothers her so much........move on.
What was up with the PRIMARY! 😱😱😱😱 She did not seem happy AT ALL.
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Post by acookertv on Sept 29, 2020 10:49:07 GMT
Malia was annoying me on WWHL. She puts out information about her life, and then plays coy about people wanting to know about it. There would have been a really easy way to avoid those questions - since the break up was so new, she didn't need to share it publicly yet. It would be totally fine for her to get through her emotions and THEN share it. She annoys me the way she wants it both ways - she wants all the attention, but wants to control how people give her the attention.
I wish someone would come along to explain to Tom that he does not get to be the ultimate judge of his food - the charter guests do. So if they rave about how great it is, an want to eat more, he should be pleased. Whining about food that people love puts him in the same category as Malia begging for attention but wanting to control it. I also thought it was notable that he explained he was making basically the same chicken he'd made before. I recall other chefs getting slammed in past seasons for making the same dishes each charter.
Jess ... I think if Jess is going to hold the standards that she does, she needs to have no boyfriend. The things she's getting jealous over are not over the top flirting - they are a guy communicating with humans and doing his job. If she cannot handle a guy talking to anyone else, the only men she'll get will be obsessive serial killers and she'd be better off without them.
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Post by momrek06 on Sept 29, 2020 14:40:38 GMT
Malia was annoying me on WWHL. She puts out information about her life, and then plays coy about people wanting to know about it. There would have been a really easy way to avoid those questions - since the break up was so new, she didn't need to share it publicly yet. It would be totally fine for her to get through her emotions and THEN share it. She annoys me the way she wants it both ways - she wants all the attention, but wants to control how people give her the attention. I wish someone would come along to explain to Tom that he does not get to be the ultimate judge of his food - the charter guests do. So if they rave about how great it is, an want to eat more, he should be pleased. Whining about food that people love puts him in the same category as Malia begging for attention but wanting to control it. I also thought it was notable that he explained he was making basically the same chicken he'd made before. I recall other chefs getting slammed in past seasons for making the same dishes each charter. Jess ... I think if Jess is going to hold the standards that she does, she needs to have no boyfriend. The things she's getting jealous over are not over the top flirting - they are a guy communicating with humans and doing his job. If she cannot handle a guy talking to anyone else, the only men she'll get will be obsessive serial killers and she'd be better off without them. Totally agree with everything you said.
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Post by moviememories on Sept 29, 2020 16:20:25 GMT
Jess definitely has a jealous streak. Aesha can go overboard in general though with some of her comments. If she was a male, I think she would be labeled as a pervert more often.
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Post by acookertv on Sept 29, 2020 16:48:02 GMT
I agree with that. However, if Jess took a minute to pay attention, she'd realize that Aesha talks like that to everyone. She's not going after Rob - she's just a goofball. And if she'd grabbed his ass, I think she would have done it decisively enough that he would have known for certain that she did!
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Post by beerbelly on Sept 29, 2020 18:17:16 GMT
Exactly, she's a goofball! And I loved when one of the guests asked where they were going and she had no idea! I love that she is just so light-hearted and so ready to have a laugh. There is no way she has designs on Rob, and it's his job to be nice to the guests and being flirtatious in the service industry is not unheard of.
Tom is a brat. Here Malia worked so hard to be the boss and now she's under the thumb of the chef. Stupid. And the way that he spoke to the captain!!!! He worked for Ramsey? Hard to believe.
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Post by acookertv on Sept 29, 2020 18:44:23 GMT
He learned how to talk to people from Ramsey!
I think that Malia showed what a weak manager she is through that whole thing. Some of being a good manager is having the discipline to know when to NOT jump in. She kept trying to justify jumping in by saying she was the Bosun - but a Bosun has NO responsibility over the galley or provisions. She doesn't get to manage any department just because she's the Bosun - her power is only over the deck crew and the deck!
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Post by karna68 on Sept 30, 2020 13:50:41 GMT
I thought it was funny on WWHL how Sandy said her and Malia were getting a lot of heat on social media. Yeah because you're not portraying strong women in dominantly male positions. They're both wet blankets.
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Post by mayamaisha on Oct 2, 2020 4:12:50 GMT
He learned how to talk to people from Ramsey! I think that Malia showed what a weak manager she is through that whole thing. Some of being a good manager is having the discipline to know when to NOT jump in. She kept trying to justify jumping in by saying she was the Bosun - but a Bosun has NO responsibility over the galley or provisions. She doesn't get to manage any department just because she's the Bosun - her power is only over the deck crew and the deck! Malia also disobeyed Sandy after she was told to stay out of the galley. Can't stand her.
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Post by beerbelly on Oct 6, 2020 18:10:41 GMT
I just love Aesha, she looks like she enjoys being with the guests. She's just so good at her job. And, by the way, so was Bugsy, instead of getting angry at Jess she just talked with her and said that she felt like she was checking-out. I would love to have these women on my chartered yacht any day! Ugh Jess, she was so pretty in the beginning to me, but man, this boat, relationship or both have taken their toll on her. Why is she so insecure with her man? From the picture, someone was 'grabbing' Aesha's behind as well. She is just miserable.
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Post by acookertv on Oct 6, 2020 18:19:31 GMT
Agree with every bit of this Beerbelly! Aesha comes across like she knows what a gift it is to have such a fun job, and she's going to enjoy it. I love that she doesn't get swept up in the drama - she just looks for ways to enjoy the moment. Also agree with you on Bugsy. I don't WANT to say it about her - with the way she behaves as second stew, I want to dismiss her as being crappy when she's in charge. But she does a really good job of keeping everyone organized and understanding what makes everyone tick to keep things moving well.
The good thing to me about seeing Rob and Jess play out is that it's very obvious Rob would have ended things with her by now if they were not stuck on the yacht together. So he's just delaying the inevitable to keep the peace - and not in a very peaceful way. On the show that comes on after WWHL last night, they were all going after Rob for leading Jess on. I think he's guilty of some of that. But Jess has just been MISERABLE in how mad she gets when people don't all revolve around her. She's petty and too committed to her grudges.
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Post by beerbelly on Oct 6, 2020 20:34:05 GMT
Oh! WWHL looked good with Kiko and Captain Lee, did they say anything of note?
Yeah, I've had jealous partners in the past and it's a complete drag. I mean, the amount of energy one has to use to prove that you aren't interested in other people is just a waste. I don't think he was leading on Jess at all, I think he just lost interest as she became less and less fun to be around.
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Post by acookertv on Oct 6, 2020 20:49:06 GMT
Capt Lee was of course asked about Hannah's firing, and asked what the difference was between what happened with her and what happened when Kat had valium on an early season of Below Deck. Capt Lee said the key to the whole thing is having a copy of the prescription. If a crew member has a written prescription to back the medication they have, it's fine. If they don't, it's an issue, and from what he knows that was the issue with Hannah. Merely having a prescription label was not enough (side note - Lee didn't say it, but focusing on the lack of prescription fizzles a lot of the drama that Sandy and Malia were trying to create talking about what a grave danger it was to go to sea with Hannah.
Regarding Kiko, Capt Lee talked about how important it is for a chef to manage his/her reaction to criticism - whether that comes from the captain, the crew or the guests. He said it's an emotional job and a good chef has to know how to keep his/her emotions in check. Kiko was receptive to that and said he'd learned a lot from teh experience. He also said that since he was fired, he'd gone to Las Vegas to learn about food there - if he had to cook another Vegas night, he'd do it served like tapas cooking prime rib, lobster, shrimp, caviar, and other decadent foods.
The most interesting to me - Andy asked Capt Lee of all the crew of Below Deck Med who he would most want to have work for him. He said it was between Rob and Kiko.
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Post by mayamaisha on Oct 6, 2020 23:49:42 GMT
Question. Why does this boat not have a dishwasher or am I missing something?
Was Malia willing to walk off the boat if her ”life partner” walked?
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Post by beerbelly on Oct 7, 2020 0:43:49 GMT
Thanks, Acooker! Huh, I think he had to say Kiko since he was there with him. But I see it, he's a sweetheart. Rob? Not the other guy that I am blanking the name on? Maybe because Rob has aspirations for engineering?
And, I don't know if they have a dishwasher on deck, Mayamaisha. I never really thought about it. But I would hope so!
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Post by acookertv on Oct 7, 2020 10:45:41 GMT
Beerbelly, I thought the same thing! Alex seems to be the one who is really rising to the occasion and doing a great job. I guess that Lee sees that Rob has ambition and does a great job when not distracted by Jess? I will say both of them (Rob and Alex) are really good with the guests, knowing how to be friendly and fun but also when to leave them room and not be overly social.
Mayamisha, I'm pretty sure there is a dishwasher - when we see them doing dishes I believe it's the pre-rinse or polishing what comes out of the washer.
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Post by kellyk678 on Oct 8, 2020 17:52:39 GMT
The most interesting to me - Andy asked Capt Lee of all the crew of Below Deck Med who he would most want to have work for him. He said it was between Rob and Kiko. I thought that he said Alex.
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Post by acookertv on Oct 8, 2020 18:04:06 GMT
I THINK he said Rob, because I was expecting him to say Alex and was surprised he didn't. But I could also be wrong about that.
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Post by queens on Oct 8, 2020 19:17:43 GMT
I would like to see more of Pete, he's kind of hot.
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