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Post by Critical on Apr 14, 2021 22:21:10 GMT
How far ahead is Couples Cam filmed? It does seem that they produce the episodes in batches, but there's obviously a delay.
It looks like Jephte's SM accounts are still active, but Shawniece deleted her Twitter and her Insta. His SM is just random stuff about sports. NOTHING about the marriage.
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Post by DoodleMom921 on Apr 14, 2021 23:19:57 GMT
How far ahead is Couples Cam filmed? It does seem that they produce the episodes in batches, but there's obviously a delay. It looks like Jephte's SM accounts are still active, but Shawniece deleted her Twitter and her Insta. His SM is just random stuff about sports. NOTHING about the marriage. They are filmed a few months in advance. Woody’s birthday is November 9 that they just showed last week. And Danielle had the baby in December.
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Post by Critical on Apr 15, 2021 1:51:57 GMT
How far ahead is Couples Cam filmed? It does seem that they produce the episodes in batches, but there's obviously a delay. It looks like Jephte's SM accounts are still active, but Shawniece deleted her Twitter and her Insta. His SM is just random stuff about sports. NOTHING about the marriage. They are filmed a few months in advance. Woody’s birthday is November 9 that they just showed last week. And Danielle had the baby in December. Ah. now I remember seeing the pics on IG of that weekend when they were all in Denver for Woody's birthday.
So, that means whatever happens on Couples Cam this week happened months ago. Jephte and Shawniece could still be split up. I hope they're able to work things out and that they can do so without spewing more drama on SM. That's just not productive.
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Post by rockytopchick on Apr 15, 2021 12:59:18 GMT
Was so happy that Paige and Chris were not on last night's show
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Post by nicksmom on Apr 15, 2021 13:38:39 GMT
Oh boy last night really brought forward why these people shouldn’t be together.
Hailey what does it matter what he wears , geez. Was surprised the place let the, in there without a helmet. She sure is all about winning. When she lost at mini golf she said she let him win something but her face said it all. Her parents let her get away with that stuff when she was young...she does what she wants now that’s for sure. I’m glad Dr. Pepper told her that she hurt him , I don’t think she got it since she called her mom and didn’t say that.
Erik and Virginia didn’t get anywhere. The drinking still didn’t get brought up either. She looked bored looking at his pictures but than she got upset about her family. She sure doesn’t want to compromise on her friends thing. I can’t see this working in the long run.
Clara and Ryan didn’t move in any direction. I can’t believe his mom said that about him on tv. How embarrassed he will be.
Vincent and Brianna she doesn’t want to compromise either. Next week he looks like he becomes a big baby again but editing could be bad.
I don’t know why they make them write those letters , it always makes someone mad. No one brought up their future wedding.
2 shows left.
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Post by var1117 on Apr 16, 2021 23:32:03 GMT
Oh boy last night really brought forward why these people shouldn’t be together. Hailey what does it matter what he wears , geez. Was surprised the place let the, in there without a helmet. She sure is all about winning. When she lost at mini golf she said she let him win something but her face said it all. Her parents let her get away with that stuff when she was young...she does what she wants now that’s for sure. I’m glad Dr. Pepper told her that she hurt him , I don’t think she got it since she called her mom and didn’t say that. Erik and Virginia didn’t get anywhere. The drinking still didn’t get brought up either. She looked bored looking at his pictures but than she got upset about her family. She sure doesn’t want to compromise on her friends thing. I can’t see this working in the long run. Clara and Ryan didn’t move in any direction. I can’t believe his mom said that about him on tv. How embarrassed he will be. Vincent and Brianna she doesn’t want to compromise either. Next week he looks like he becomes a big baby again but editing could be bad. I don’t know why they make them write those letters , it always makes someone mad. No one brought up their future wedding. 2 shows left. I'll be honest, I've tried but I don't really like any of these people.So glad no Paige or Chris this episode.
I agree with what nicksmom posted above,and add this:
There is someone out there for Jacob., someone who is caring and quirky and not deathly afraid of commitment. Why did Haley sign up for this? No one will meet whatever her impossible demands are. She hurt Jacob, he gave her a lovely gift and I do not blame him for bringing it up. Her dismissal of the gift just demonstrates how shallow and self centered she is, plus she clearly has issues from her controlling ex She is not very likeable and I have really tried Jacob might be too blunt but he has her pegged.
Clara and Ryan. Is he a virgin? Maybe, but he doesn't understand what love is. All the experts have tried to tell him, but hes waiting for that unicorn with rainbows shooting out its ass to tell him he's in love Maybe he doesn;t love her, but he reminds me of the chick from last season that believed her virginity waste greatest gift in the world. I hate to tell her it''s not. Anyway, I hope ryan snaps out of it realllllll soon.
Bri and what's his name...see this is how much i don't care about them, can't remember the names lol..oh yeah Vincent..they need to compromise on the "she has no filter and he is a wimp" thing. She needs counseling about the baby fear. I almost believe shes afraid because she feels she'll get fat. What she says to the camera and what she says to him don't add up.
Erik and Virginia: she's an alcoholic and needs to go to rehab. It's not cute, it's not funny and it's not normal. She cannot expect anyone to be ok with her drinking herself into a stupor and having to sleep it off on someones sofa. Especially not her husband. Everyone enables her. Everyone needs to stop. Ive had dogs all my life. Tey can be your best friend and still behave. It's ridiculous. And get your brows fixed sweetheart.
Paige and Chris: He is an absolute aaaaaahole with zero redeeming qualities. I no longer feel sorry for Paige.Too many "God put me here and we took vows" Sometimes God puts us in situations to see how we handle it. And Ill say it, you can blast me for shaming or whatever. The baby momma is very well maintained and let's say slick. Paige, while a pretty girl, is not slick. I thought Paige was very sweet, now I am wondering if she is just stupid. She is definitely needy. Very needy
I'm hoping those who should stay together do so Briana and Vincent and Clara and Ryan I think Paige and Jacob should get a do over.
All of this is just my own opinion. Which is like an ass, everyone has one.
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Post by annifran on Apr 17, 2021 19:52:47 GMT
Nicksmom and var1117: both well summarized. This is the most mismatched season ever. Despite what Pastor Cal says, I totally feel the couples are chosen for the drama they will begin. Otherwise, what would we have to discuss? The first couple of seasons were the best with couples still together and now with children. So sorry Jephte and Shawniece are apparently no longer together.
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Post by amber on Apr 18, 2021 21:03:37 GMT
They are filmed a few months in advance. Woody’s birthday is November 9 that they just showed last week. And Danielle had the baby in December. Ah. now I remember seeing the pics on IG of that weekend when they were all in Denver for Woody's birthday.
So, that means whatever happens on Couples Cam this week happened months ago. Jephte and Shawniece could still be split up. I hope they're able to work things out and that they can do so without spewing more drama on SM. That's just not productive.
I so agree with you. I really like this couple, but enough already!
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Post by Critical on Apr 22, 2021 8:35:19 GMT
Sooooo.... Erik isn't one to issue ultimatums!? And we thought Chris was Mr. Lack of Self-Unawareness! I SO wanted the editors to pop in a clip montage of all the ultimatums he's laid down with Virginia. Jerk. Clearly, he knows nothing about cats. It's like a friend of mine who didn't understand that you can't just tell the cat to stop doing xyz. I felt for Virginia. Really though, what the hell were the experts thinking matching someone who's allergic to cats with someone who has two of them? Idiotic. I'd have a hard time too if someone was lecturing me on how to "parent" my pets. Every time Jacob starts to seem like an okay guy, he shuts down and makes rude, snotty comments to Haley. Eight eggs in one meal? About the bracelet, I get that he was probably hurt about how Haley reacted to it, but I have a big issue with people who try to guilt you by dropping the price tag on something they bought for you. When you do that, it doesn't feel like a gift given freely - it feels transactional. I still think Ryan and Clara are going to be fine. He's a little closed off emotionally, but she's so genuine and open that I think she's cracking through that facade of his. I wonder if someone made fun of Vinny in his life. It seems like he has such an issue with trying new things because he might fail or look foolish. I hope Briana can help him to loosen up and let go a bit. AND know that she's not going to care if he does look a little foolish.
I couldn't watch any of the stuff with the crabs I haven't missed Chris OR Paige at all these past weeks. I'll be annoyed to see them on Decision Day. That Unmatchables show is pretty embarrassing. I can't imagine admitting any of those things on camera.
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Post by woodiedog on Apr 22, 2021 10:32:25 GMT
I have not finished watching, but I had the following thoughts about Jacob and Haley:
After Jacob ate 8 eggs, I wondered if he was going to sleep in a separate room. 😃
Jacob and Haley’s relationship needs to end. As Jacob said, it seems like the longest first date ever. They can’t stand each other any more, let them go their separate ways.
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Post by DoodleMom921 on Apr 22, 2021 12:32:20 GMT
Completely agree with you both.
Haley is just hanging in because she likes spending time with the other couples. She is a different person around the girls and she even gave the other husbands hugs when they arrived 🤣
Eriks ultimatum line made me actually laugh out loud. I agree they should have played the clips of him telling Virginia what to do. Really makes no sense how they don’t ask about allergies or just gloss over it. Cats can’t be trained like dogs and he’s going to use that as something else she just can’t do.
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Post by downsey on Apr 22, 2021 14:11:37 GMT
Erik and the cat allergy...does he really have an allergy to cats, or does Stepdad just not want to have cats? Virginia's "stuff" from her house has to have catness all over it...has it affected him? Reminds me of the talk he had where he stated that "every relationship he's ever had ended with the woman cheating on him". Not sure if it's true or a way for him to get what he wants. Controlling donkey.
Vincent's fear of everything is weird. How he expresses his fear of everything is weird.
Jacob is a strange guy. I remember him complaining to one of Haley's friends that all his past relationships ended because of the women. I'm sure in his head it's Haley's fault. The guy ate 8 eggs instead of waiting for the rest of the crew to arrive and have dinner as a group. Weird...and not just for eating 8 eggs at one sitting. That's just embarrassing.
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Post by Ellabella on Apr 22, 2021 17:28:41 GMT
My husband watches some of the episodes with me, even he asked me : "what is wrong with all these guys?"
Most of them have never heard of the word compromise and when they do use it, it only applies to the woman. They seem to think they are ok, it's the woman who need to change to their needs and wants.
Eric is really getting on my nerves. I reacted like most of you all , when he claimed to never give a ultimatum . I also think the allergy problem with Virginias cats should have come up during the interviews with the so called "experts".
Vincent is a big baby in my eyes . He just looks ridicules not wanting to try some things with Briana . He falls into the category " you compromise to fit my needs and wants " . She should only like things he likes.
I could not watch the scene with the crabs . They should have left that out .
I just don't know who will survive this experiment called MAFS . I can't see any of them staying together.
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Post by Eastcoastmom on Apr 22, 2021 19:13:54 GMT
I'm wondering if Erik told the experts about his cat allergies. Allergies can be tricky and there are varying degrees. My friend and her husband adopted a cat. It took almost a full year before her husband had a bad allergic reaction that landed him in the hospital. We are talking full blown anaphylaxis. They had to rehome the cat.
Even if Erik's allergies are milder, it's ridiculous that he should have to suffer with sneezing, watery eyes, coughing, etc. To his credit he's not asking Virginia to part with her cats, but to have them sleep elsewhere in the house. He's right when he says she's not compromising at all. If she insists on having her kitties in bed with her sleeping in her "crevices", she should say no on Decision Day. Believe me, I'm not the biggest Erik fan, but she's bonkers and nowhere ready to be married.
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Post by justCoz on Apr 22, 2021 19:39:48 GMT
I just can't with the guys or women this time.
I have a cat allergy that developed when I was still at home with my mom. It was somewhat controllable, but there's no way I could sleep in the same room with them. They had to be closed off from me. Once I moved out and was just visiting my mother would close off her second room for a few weeks before I got there. It seems like something they definitely should have been figuring out ahead of time. Virginia is bonkers if she thinks that expecting him to sleep in the bed with them is reasonable. But he's also delusional about how reasonable he thinks he is. I'm tired of hearing him say "then that it's, I'm done" so I can't imagine how tired Virginia is of it. But in spite of all his ultimatums, I often think his requests start out reasonable. For all of his I'm done's, she seems pretty unwilling to compromise either.
Vincent needs to let go a little bit of his fears but I could never live with Briana. She's was too bossy and demanding. I am a night owl and someone demanding I get up would never ever work. She expects him to go to sleep earlier to get up when she tells him to. I can't roll my eyes enough at that. She thinks if he just goes to sleep earlier than it'll solve the problem. Likely his brain has just not shut down that early.
Jake and Haley are both too much. They were never going to be able to mesh. Both of them are stubborn. Neither one seems to think they're the problem, but they are both contributing to the downward spiral.
I hope Ryan and Clara can make it long-term. I think their things can be worked through.
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Post by Critical on Apr 23, 2021 0:52:23 GMT
Re: Erik's "allergy." While yes, Virginia isn't budging on the issue, have we heard him once offer to try allergy medicine? I know quite a few people with pet allergies and only a small number of them aren't able to at least minimize the symptoms with medication. It feels to me more like Erik isn't a cat person and wouldn't mind in the least if she just got rid of the cats, although he knows how she'll react if he asked her to. I know how she feels, if a man wanted me to get rid of my cats, it definitely wouldn't be the cats who'd be hitting the sidewalk. I can't remember which of the wives - maybe Clara, since she's pretty insightful - said that what Erik ad Virginia have is an infatuation. I just don't see them lasting long term. They may have chemistry, but IMO, they just have too many issues that probably can't be resolved. Neither of them seems willing to compromise, but Erik speaking to Virginia like he's in charge may make her even less willing to compromise. I know that's the effect it would have on me. Really, I think his attitude is the roadblock to solving a lot of their problems. Couples can definitely have different political views, but I see Erik as the type to lecture and expect his wife to ultimately take on his opinions. I'd love for Virginia to finally reach her limit and, when he issues yet another ultimatum, call his bluff and leave his a$$. I know that Erik lurks on the MAFS Reddit and he's posted a few times. Not since so many posters there really started bashing him though
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Post by Eastcoastmom on Apr 23, 2021 1:27:56 GMT
I'm sorry, Critical, but we will have to agree to disagree. Whether or not Erik's cat allergy is mild or not is besides the point. Why should he have to take medication to be somewhat comfortable? Who wants to go through life like that? Plus, do we even know as a pilot if he would be able to take those types of medications? He needs to be alert and drug-free. It's neither of their faults that they were matched. The experts are to blame, assuming Erik told them he can't be around cats. But Erik has been willing to compromise while Virginia hasn't.
As I mentioned earlier my friend had a near fatal anaphylaxis reaction, which seemingly came out of nowhere. He had adopted a cat and while some people may acclimate over time, others actually get worse, which is what happened to my friend. My dad and his wife were given a kitty when he was older, in his 60s. He'd never had a cat before or been around them. For the remainder of his life he had all kinds of nasal issues. He refused to go for an allergy test but I was fairly certain it was caused by his cat.
Erik doesn't want to be divorced again, so he's trying very hard to make the marriage work. I understand Virginia loving her pets more at this point than a stranger she married. In the real world one could choose not to date a person with cats or dogs if allergic, or if not a pet person. In this case both of them got screwed. I would not blame either if they walked away.
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Post by Critical on Apr 23, 2021 4:05:53 GMT
So, Virginia is the only one who has to compromise here? Why wouldn't he want to take allergy medication if it could make him feel better? There isn't just one type. There are certainly over the counter options, but there are prescription drugs that are both oral and injectable. Presumably, there could be one that would both help Erik with his allergy and allow him to work. Although why would he need to take allergy medication while he was working? The scenario you describe is not what's happening here and it's very rare. What we do know is this: Erik says he's allergic to cats, but the allergy wasn't even enough of a concern for him to include it on his paperwork when he applied for the show OR if he did, he said it was minor. While the experts have made dumb decisions in matching people, if someone disclosed a severe cat allergy, they wouldn't match that person with a cat owner. If Erik's allergy was severe, there's no way he wouldn't have let them know. People developing a more severe allergy is possible, but not common and we don't know that it would ever happen with Erik. We also know that Virginia is close to her cats in a way that maybe some people don't understand. I do - when I was experiencing severe depression in college, the fact that I had to stay alive to keep that cat alive was pretty much the only reason I was alive from day to day. Virginia has made similar statements.
If people are expected to compromise in marriage, it seems like Virginia is being expected to make ALL the compromises. I don't see Erik doing anything but lecturing and expecting HER to bend.
We do agree that they shouldn't stay married though. The first time he made an ultimatum with me, that would be the end of that. I hate bullies and that's what he is.
There are definitely a number of people this season who should have been on Unmatchables instead. It would have saved a lot of heartache.
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Post by Eastcoastmom on Apr 23, 2021 13:18:05 GMT
The compromise was that the cats sleep in another room and not in their bed. I think that's reasonable. We don't know what he told the experts. If she was such a great cat/ dog/ pet lover she would not be passing out drunk all the time at her good friend Cole's house and sleeping over. Who's taking care of her precious pets then?
I'm not going to get into the issue of him taking medication. Whether OTC or prescription, medication is still medication. Maybe he'd rather not have to take it. I know I wouldn't. But I wouldn't be in that position to begin with.
I don't like Erik much, but I loathe Virginia. She's a lush and is more concerned with having her weekends open to party with her friends than be with her husband when he's able to be home.
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Post by karna68 on Apr 23, 2021 14:55:02 GMT
I agree Eastcoastmom yeah Erik is not the greatest but Virginia isn't totally innocent either. She should have been unmatchable since she likes to party so much.
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Post by ccfromcan on Apr 23, 2021 18:29:33 GMT
I’m disappointed they didn’t ask Hailey and Jacob where they are going to live - I wanted to hear the answer.
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Post by rockytopchick on Apr 23, 2021 20:28:52 GMT
I’m disappointed they didn’t ask Hailey and Jacob where they are going to live - I wanted to hear the answer. They may have asked and just not aired her saying that he's going to his house and she is going to hers and that's that.
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Post by coco46 on Apr 24, 2021 2:00:36 GMT
Oh boy last night really brought forward why these people shouldn’t be together. Hailey what does it matter what he wears , geez. Was surprised the place let the, in there without a helmet. She sure is all about winning. When she lost at mini golf she said she let him win something but her face said it all. Her parents let her get away with that stuff when she was young...she does what she wants now that’s for sure. I’m glad Dr. Pepper told her that she hurt him , I don’t think she got it since she called her mom and didn’t say that. Erik and Virginia didn’t get anywhere. The drinking still didn’t get brought up either. She looked bored looking at his pictures but than she got upset about her family. She sure doesn’t want to compromise on her friends thing. I can’t see this working in the long run. Clara and Ryan didn’t move in any direction. I can’t believe his mom said that about him on tv. How embarrassed he will be. Vincent and Brianna she doesn’t want to compromise either. Next week he looks like he becomes a big baby again but editing could be bad. I don’t know why they make them write those letters , it always makes someone mad. No one brought up their future wedding. 2 shows left. I'll be honest, I've tried but I don't really like any of these people.So glad no Paige or Chris this episode.
I agree with what nicksmom posted above,and add this:
There is someone out there for Jacob., someone who is caring and quirky and not deathly afraid of commitment. Why did Haley sign up for this? No one will meet whatever her impossible demands are. She hurt Jacob, he gave her a lovely gift and I do not blame him for bringing it up. Her dismissal of the gift just demonstrates how shallow and self centered she is, plus she clearly has issues from her controlling ex She is not very likeable and I have really tried Jacob might be too blunt but he has her pegged.
Clara and Ryan. Is he a virgin? Maybe, but he doesn't understand what love is. All the experts have tried to tell him, but hes waiting for that unicorn with rainbows shooting out its ass to tell him he's in love Maybe he doesn;t love her, but he reminds me of the chick from last season that believed her virginity waste greatest gift in the world. I hate to tell her it''s not. Anyway, I hope ryan snaps out of it realllllll soon.
Bri and what's his name...see this is how much i don't care about them, can't remember the names lol..oh yeah Vincent..they need to compromise on the "she has no filter and he is a wimp" thing. She needs counseling about the baby fear. I almost believe shes afraid because she feels she'll get fat. What she says to the camera and what she says to him don't add up.
Erik and Virginia: she's an alcoholic and needs to go to rehab. It's not cute, it's not funny and it's not normal. She cannot expect anyone to be ok with her drinking herself into a stupor and having to sleep it off on someones sofa. Especially not her husband. Everyone enables her. Everyone needs to stop. Ive had dogs all my life. Tey can be your best friend and still behave. It's ridiculous. And get your brows fixed sweetheart.
Paige and Chris: He is an absolute aaaaaahole with zero redeeming qualities. I no longer feel sorry for Paige.Too many "God put me here and we took vows" Sometimes God puts us in situations to see how we handle it. And Ill say it, you can blast me for shaming or whatever. The baby momma is very well maintained and let's say slick. Paige, while a pretty girl, is not slick. I thought Paige was very sweet, now I am wondering if she is just stupid. She is definitely needy. Very needy
I'm hoping those who should stay together do so Briana and Vincent and Clara and Ryan I think Paige and Jacob should get a do over.
All of this is just my own opinion. Which is like an ass, everyone has one. I agree on everything you said here. Can't stand Haley. she never did understand why Jacob was upset that she dismissed his gift. When she called her mother, her mother was just as snarky. I see where Haley gets her immature behavior from.
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Post by Critical on Apr 25, 2021 5:56:37 GMT
As a long time cat owner, I'm telling you, it's FAR easier for Erik to act like an adult who cares about his wife and take a freaking allergy pill than to attempt to train cats. If they've been sleeping on the bed for their entire lives, it's going to be hard to get them not to. If you have cats you know that putting them on the other side off a door is an exercise in frustration for both of you, especially if they're used to open doors. I'm not saying that Virginia shouldn't make compromises there too, but if Erik cares (and, frankly, I don't think he does, but he says he does), he'll try allergy medicine and see if it works. If he doesn't want to take medication because he doesn't want to well, then I guess that says something about him.
Frankly, I see him as a person who expects his wife to bend to his wishes and adapt to what he wants. He's not happy with her dog's behavior, so it needs to get in line with how he thinks the dog should behave. If he's allergic to the cats then I'd suspect that he'd just be a-okay with her getting rid of the cats because they inconvenience him in some way. Never mind that his wife has told him how bonded to the cats she is and how important they are to her. Oh, and as soon as she wants to deal with serious issues, he has to either throw down an ultimatum OR he backs off and they don't actually have any resolution.
I don't think Virginia is Miss Perfect, but I see his character defects as much more serious, long term. I mean, she can mature AND quit drinking. I guess I just have a problem with controlling people. IMO, Erik is a textbook controller. Virginia should RUN.
I don't condone Haley's behavior, but Jacob is no angel either. I HAAATE when people give gifts and have to tell you how very much they spent. You know he threw that number out and compared it to what she spent on that hat just to jab at her. I thought it was a necklace too. I wouldn't have worn it. Maybe I would have taken it out of the box with a mind to wrap it around my bouquet and then seen that it was a bracelet. It wasn't my style at all, so I can't fault her for that. I get where he's coming from and she should have had it with her at their apartment, but giving jewelry to a stranger comes with the risk of them not liking it. Is it better for her to pretend she likes it and then potentially be gifted jewelry that she doesn't like from there on out? I'm glad she gave it back to him so he can get his money back, since that seems to be what he cares about. It seems like any time Haley's trying to make nice, he has to let fly with some snotty remark. I'm not surprised he's single, although that's the case with quite a few people this season.
I just DO NOT understand the bickering in front of the other couples. What is up with that? IMO, it's immature and classless, not to mention inconsiderate and disrespectful to make other people witness your fights. I really felt for the other two couples on the retreat, who didn't seem to know what to do.
In better news. according to MAFS Fan, {Spoiler} Clara and Ryan have been house hunting! Someone who is selling several properties in Atlanta had Clara and Ryan make an offer on one of them. They didn't end up getting the house, but still - good news that they're still together and strengthening their commitment.
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Post by Ellabella on Apr 26, 2021 19:20:21 GMT
As a long time cat owner, I'm telling you, it's FAR easier for Erik to act like an adult who cares about his wife and take a freaking allergy pill than to attempt to train cats. If they've been sleeping on the bed for their entire lives, it's going to be hard to get them not to. If you have cats you know that putting them on the other side off a door is an exercise in frustration for both of you, especially if they're used to open doors. I'm not saying that Virginia shouldn't make compromises there too, but if Erik cares (and, frankly, I don't think he does, but he says he does), he'll try allergy medicine and see if it works. If he doesn't want to take medication because he doesn't want to well, then I guess that says something about him.
Frankly, I see him as a person who expects his wife to bend to his wishes and adapt to what he wants. He's not happy with her dog's behavior, so it needs to get in line with how he thinks the dog should behave. If he's allergic to the cats then I'd suspect that he'd just be a-okay with her getting rid of the cats because they inconvenience him in some way. Never mind that his wife has told him how bonded to the cats she is and how important they are to her. Oh, and as soon as she wants to deal with serious issues, he has to either throw down an ultimatum OR he backs off and they don't actually have any resolution.
I don't think Virginia is Miss Perfect, but I see his character defects as much more serious, long term. I mean, she can mature AND quit drinking. I guess I just have a problem with controlling people. IMO, Erik is a textbook controller. Virginia should RUN.
I don't condone Haley's behavior, but Jacob is no angel either. I HAAATE when people give gifts and have to tell you how very much they spent. You know he threw that number out and compared it to what she spent on that hat just to jab at her. I thought it was a necklace too. I wouldn't have worn it. Maybe I would have taken it out of the box with a mind to wrap it around my bouquet and then seen that it was a bracelet. It wasn't my style at all, so I can't fault her for that. I get where he's coming from and she should have had it with her at their apartment, but giving jewelry to a stranger comes with the risk of them not liking it. Is it better for her to pretend she likes it and then potentially be gifted jewelry that she doesn't like from there on out? I'm glad she gave it back to him so he can get his money back, since that seems to be what he cares about. It seems like any time Haley's trying to make nice, he has to let fly with some snotty remark. I'm not surprised he's single, although that's the case with quite a few people this season.
I just DO NOT understand the bickering in front of the other couples. What is up with that? IMO, it's immature and classless, not to mention inconsiderate and disrespectful to make other people witness your fights. I really felt for the other two couples on the retreat, who didn't seem to know what to do.
In better news. according to MAFS Fan, {Spoiler} Clara and Ryan have been house hunting! Someone who is selling several properties in Atlanta had Clara and Ryan make an offer on one of them. They didn't end up getting the house, but still - good news that they're still together and strengthening their commitment. Oh wow ! ( to the spoiler news )
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Post by Eastcoastmom on Apr 26, 2021 20:36:33 GMT
Critical, thanks for the spoiler. Good news!
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Post by Critical on Apr 27, 2021 0:47:11 GMT
I thought this was interesting: soapdirt.com/married-at-first-sight-erik-lake-busted-in-big-lie/Note the pic of Erik and, I think, his ex-wife and their CAT! I suspect the issue isn't really the cat at all - it's about control. My mom and I were talking about it last night and she was laughing about his edict that she should just not let the cats get on the bed. We were talking about a friend of mine who doesn't know anything about cats who said, in reference to me talking about how my cat wouldn't stop doing something annoying. I can't remember what it was - maybe getting on the counter or my work bench or messing with the blinds. Her solution? "Just tell then not to do that." ITA about the spoiler from MAFS Fan - nice to have some good news this season! I can't wait for this dumpster fire to be over. I can't believe we have to wait two weeks for Decision Day. Something I read said that there's some sort of special on next week instead of Decision Day, which isn't airing until May 12th. They're stretching out the reunion to TWO WEEKS as well. Not two hours in one night - two weeks starting the week after Decision Day. What about this season makes them think we want them to drag things out? They should be aware enough to feel like they need to put this train wreck in the rear view as soon as possible.
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Post by amber on Apr 27, 2021 1:36:52 GMT
With all due respect, Critical, that picture convinces you he's lying? I see swollen eyes. Don't you?
I think it is entirely reasonable not to allow cats in the bedroom. I live with cats, and I don't allow them in mine. Nor would I ever sleep with cats or even my dog. It is not a matter of training; it's about using a scat mat during the day and shutting the door at night.
Why might you ask? There are several, but one reason is I like to lay out my clothing on the bed, and I don't want animal hair or fur on my clothing. Another is and although I grew out of being highly allergic (which I was as a child) sometimes they still make me sneeze. Another reason? I don't want a litter box in my room or the bathroom. Another reason is I don't want litter box paws on my bed.
Isn't it interesting that Virginia's cats are not with Virginia in the MAFS apartment? Obviously, her cats not being there isn't a deal-breaker for her, right? And Virginia having cats doesn't appear to be a deal-breaker for Erik except for the part about the cats sleeping on the bed.
Don't even get me started about kitchen counters.
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Post by downsey on Apr 27, 2021 4:05:42 GMT
I kknnnnnewwww Erik the Stepdad was lying about the "seriousness"/"existence" of a cat allergy. Whenever he wants to assert control he spins a story to support his position. Stepdad is nearly as strange as Jacob...very close.
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Post by karna68 on Apr 27, 2021 12:57:01 GMT
Yeah Erik isn't perfect but doesn't anybody see Virginia's "oh well" attitude? She gets defensive every time he talks about her going out and I don't think his request for her not to spend the night at a guy friends house is unreasonable. Hey Virginia, haven't you ever been a DD? It's not imperative that you get black out drunk every weekend!
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